In my experience, the reason people feel dissatisfied or unsuccessful is that they are looking in the wrong place for those experiences. Because we have been conditioned to believe that outside circumstances or events are the source of our feelings, we spend our energy seeking the “right” circumstances, so we have a good feeling and

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Often people seek out my services because they feel stuck or stopped. They may use other words to describe it such as laziness, or procrastination, or confusion, or some other negative characteristic or personality flaw. When I inquire into this with people almost always it boils down to being confused or not knowing what to

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At some point in life, it’s time to get realistic, right? Going for it, having what you really want is a pipe dream, a “fool’s errand,” so why even bother? We get conditioned early in life to avoid failure, disappointment and feeling bad at all costs. The underlying theme is don’t go for what you really

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Every person I have ever coached has come to me with the same issue – a case of mistaken identity.  It looks something like…“I’m a procrastinator.” – Nope, that’s a thought.“I’m not focused.” – Nope, that’s a thought.“I’m not good at follow through.” – Nope. That’s a thought.“I’m insecure and worry too much.” – Nope

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In episode 306, Bill Giruzzi shared his experience and the insights he had during a period of extreme anxiety and suicidal depression. In this episode, Lisa shares the incredible insights she had during that same time.  In so many profound ways, Lisa deeply realized that nothing in life is really up to her. When Bill was

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“What if” thoughts are like bunnies- they reproduce really fast. It looks something like this:What if the market gets worse?What if I don’t make enough money to pay bills?What if I lose my home?What if I was only successful because of the low rates?What if I am a fraud?What if, what if, what if… on

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